The New Man

The New Man


Latest Episodes

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
April 16, 2024

Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to ki

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
April 02, 2024

Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood wha

Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)
March 19, 2024

Navy SEAL Jeff Boss struggled to find his way as a civilian. Self-medicating with booze and women, he believed healing was for the weak -- until he couldnt take it anymore. Today he helps those who s

How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
March 05, 2024

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? Tripp and Alyson discuss past relationship failure

Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
February 13, 2024

Alyson and Tripp discuss trying to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. What really helps us attain the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring? Plus, embarrassing stories about T

Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
January 31, 2024

Do you have an amazing collection of books but suck at taking action? Todays call is with a personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to

Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
January 16, 2024

Commitment Issues: What would make you excited to commit to a relationship? In todays coffee date, Alyson and Tripp Lanier talk about radical honesty early on and why being out of alignment on the bi

Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
January 02, 2024

Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Alyson and I flounder through a conversation about commitment, refusing to be the bad guy, and why its so important to keep your side of the

What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
December 19, 2023

Is meditation just a way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? Today my wife Alyson talk about what drew me into decades of spiritual practice. Theres the good and the not so good. So why

Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
December 05, 2023

Alyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripps spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-s