Claire tries lip filler, Kristen can’t figure out how to travel without stress, and we chat with author David Essel about how only focusing on the positive things in life can actually lead to negative things, and how leaning into our struggles can be a path to healing.

In this epsiode we also talked about:

* The skincare fridge* Primally Pure Non-Toxic Skin Care Products‎ (use the promo code selfieclaire for a discount!)* Island Citrus Artisan Soap from SoapCreek* I.C.O.N. India Hair Oil* Positive Thinking Will Never Change Your Life But This Book Will*

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*Only available in the US.We know some of you are getting married via our Facebook group, and Zola takes the stress out of wedding planning with free wedding websites, save the dates and invitations, a wedding registry and free, easy-to-use wedding planning tools. It lets you conveniently manage everything online and in one place. Start with a FREE wedding website with over 100 beautiful wedding website designs to choose from, that fit any couple’s style and every type of wedding. You can simplify your wedding planning and save tons of time by registering at Zola, too. The Zola store has the widest selection of gifts, at all different prices with over 500 top brands, from KitchenAid and Cuisinart to Sonos and Airbnb! To start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your registry on Zola, go to zola.com/selfie.

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