Coffee with The Couple Cure
Latest Episodes
How to Know: Should You Stay or Go (“I am more important than…”) – 4.18S
How do you know if you should stay or go? And what would cause Lori to say, I am more important than ___? We discuss those topics with author and coach, Matthew Fray, as well as what if he never ge
What if He’s NOT ‘All In’? (is he clueless, toxic… or teachable?) – 4.17S
In this conversation with Matthew Fray, we discuss different viewpoints if it appears the guy isnt all in. We also cover one thing Lori HAD to start trusting Jay would do. TIMESTAMPS (click on
How to Stop Mistreating Her (empathy and validation) – 4.16S
How can a guy keep himself from mistreatingor even abusinghis partner? And how do you even start talking about those behaviors? Those are a couple of topics we discuss with author Matthew Fray in
What if He Never Changes? (why men get defensive over safety and trust) – 4.15S
Are safety and trust the same thing? This video will look at safety and trust from different angles, and it also covers why a guy may get defensive over those topics, and What if the guy doesnt cha
4 Kinds of Guys (“can you just care?”) – 4.14S
In the continued conversation with Matt Fray, we cover a few different kinds of guys, including guys who get defensive, guys who fix, guys who dont get it, and guys who are teachable. We also disc
How to Heal Broken Trust (who will he choose) – 4.13S
How does validation heal broken trust especially if he constantly chooses himself over her? And how can he conquer the monsters betrayal usually brings? We discuss these with Matt Fray in this vide
“Aren’t You Over That Yet?” (his pain vs. her pain) – 4.12S
This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, Arent you over that yet?. - TIMESTAMPS (click on
He Doesn’t Understand My Pain (3 invalidations) – 4.11S
Disagreements can lead to 3 types of invalidation, as well as 1 unique way invalidation erodes trustespecially when she feels he doesnt understand her pain. We discuss this with Matt Fray, as well
One Quick Way to Restore Trust (she can’t heal unless…) – 4.10S
Why is validation one quick way to heal trust? Because without it she will have a difficult time healing within the relationship. This video covers that concept, as well as why sexual affairs may be
What Makes Men “Get It”? (if an affair is the goal) – 4.09S
What’s the first thing a guy should do if he’s harmed the relationship, and what can make him “get it” more quickly? Also what can the lady do if his goal is to have an affair? We discuss those topi