The Place We Find Ourselves

The Place We Find Ourselves


Latest Episodes

143 Finding Home Again After Religious Trauma with Matthias Roberts
October 09, 2023

Matthias Roberts joins me today to talk about his book . Topics covered include: why belonging is so crucial for each of us, how to trust when youve been betrayed by others so many times before, and

142 Healing From Trauma: The Power of “Being With” Part 2
September 18, 2023

We pick up with Curt sharing about Coras experience in a story group. Specifically, we talk about about why Coras intense bouts of panic were her bodys way of saying something is wrong and needs c

141 Healing From Trauma: The Power of “Being With” Part 1
September 03, 2023

Curt Thompson returns to the podcast to talk about how we heal from trauma. In short, trauma and emotional pain begin to heal when our stories are witnessed by an empathetic other. Curt shares a story

140 Trauma, Resilience, and Race with Jimmy McGee and Rebecca Wheeler Walston
July 21, 2023

Jimmy McGee and Rebecca Wheeler Walston join me to talk about how they came to understand the importance of trauma and story engagement. If you want to engage your story in more depth, the Impact Move

140 What If You Were Created For Connection?
June 01, 2023

Jenn talks about how she often felt excluded and on the outside during childhoodI felt so far from people all the time. I felt so far from myself. I was always over-thinking, never in my body. As s

139 Role Reversal: When A Child Becomes A Parent
May 15, 2023

I am joined today by my friend Rebekah, who shares a story from when she was six years old. Topics covered include: feeling like there is something wrong with you but not knowing what it is, self-doub

138 How To Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 5 with Mary Ellen Owen
May 01, 2023

Fellow therapist Mary Ellen Owen joins me today to share her journey with sorrow. Like many people with trauma, it took Mary Ellen years to find her tears, years to befriend her sorrow. Although she c

137 How to Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 4 with Heather Stringer
April 17, 2023

I am joined today by Heather Stringer, who has lots of experience creating rituals that heal. Heather begins by describing two rituals: one focused on recovering from sexual assault and the second foc

136 Engaging Another Person’s Story: Why It’s Important and How To Do It
April 03, 2023

I am joined by Cathy Loerzel to talk about how to engage another persons story. Effective story engagement is not a magical skill that some people have and some people dont. It can be learned. Today

135 How Your Story Affects Your Sexuality
March 23, 2023

Jay Stringer joins me to talk about the relationship between our current sexual difficulties and our story in our family of origin. Sexual struggles are rooted in our storiesand, very often, our stor