Topics: Connecting with others across differences; why do the “big collectivisms” happen more often in authoritarian systems?; Homophobia – is it fear of self?; Authoritarianism and homophobia; Window into the mind of a Taliban leader; Your moustache or your life!; listener email about trust in relationships and making requests; FRN’s – not a nickname; new gender neutral pronoun in Sweden; gender and language; the science of attraction; Phermone-y t-shirt party!; Nude maids face crackdown.